Archives for August 2009

Sure Signs You are Not Pregnant

August 12, 2009 By Carol 2 Comments

Bad news. Constant breast groping has revealed my breasts are back to normal. They are no longer sore and tender and pumped with hormones. The pimples on my face have gone down only to leave my nose with ugly flashes of red (thank God for make-up).

I take the breast thing as potentially bad news – it seems unlikely that I am pregnant. However, I remain in hope that this is not the case. That hopefully, the lack of tenderness I am experiencing is just a sign that my body has worked hard to remove all those excess hormones that developed as a result of the injections.

I really don’t want to think about the consequences of spending another $5,000 on yet another treatment. I am in denial and I am still weeks away from receiving any reimbursement from Medicare for yet another IVF attempt. Next year, some sweeping changes to Medicare will mean that IVF will not get as much favourable treatment so the out of pocket costs will definitely rise. The implications of this are yet unknown.

I contemplate the research I have been doing on IVF and count my fortunes that I do not live in the USA where IVF is more than double the cost of doing it in Australia. I guess there are small blessings in everything. The best blessing though, would be a pregnancy. Who I am kidding!

IVF, Acupuncture and Male Infertility

August 11, 2009 By Carol Leave a Comment

I spoke to our Chinese herbalist today. She has been a great source of support to both me and my husband. My husband sees her to help his sperm. His sperm count and motility have improved quite dramatically. However, his sperm morphology and the antibodies in his sperm are still a problem.

I have also been seeing her and have had acupuncture on a regular basis but this is the first time during treatment that I haven’t had it. There were a number of reasons for this.

The first was that I have developed an aversion to needles. I am so sick of needles, blood tests and injections that I just couldn’t face seeing any more. Whilst acupuncture does not hurt, I just couldn’t do it.

The second reason was that my transfer happened on Wednesday. Having acupuncture would mean that I would have to commute for a couple of hours after work in peak hour traffic three times in that week for treatment. I decided, probably selfishly, that my time was better spent relaxing at home rather than stressing out in traffic. Maybe I am trying to make myself feel better about not going, but it sure feels like all her good work is undone when I get back into the car and stress out in the traffic.

On a positive note, my lovely IVF nurse has arranged for me to have my pregnancy blood test on Friday which will be Day 14. So with a bit of luck or misfortune, I will get to find out if I am pregnant… or not.

Normally, the clinic asks you to have a blood test on Day 16 but that happens to fall on a Sunday but the clinic is closed on Sundays. I also think my nurse is feeling sorry for me and does not want to keep me in suspense. Mind you, my period is as regular as they come so I don’t think I will waiting the whole weekend to have an answer any way.

Five Side Effects of IVF Treatment

August 10, 2009 By Carol Leave a Comment

While I am in in the official two week waiting zone, I thought I would share some of the side effects I have encountered during full blown IVF treatment:

1. Acne
2. Bloating
3. Constipation
4. Spotting
5. Sore Breasts

Without fail, my nose has become victim to acne. Apart from the lumps on my face, I get to look like Rudolph before Christmas time.

Immediately after egg collection, my stomach bloats. The bloating usually subsides after a few days but I have been known to bloat for up to 1 week afterwards. Annoying if you are planning on going out to any fancy outing.

This time around I managed to avoid the dreaded constipation. It can however be a problem. My advice – drink plenty of water because it helps in overcoming this problem.

Light bleeding is common after egg collection. Most times it goes away within 24 hours although this time it lasted for about 4 days. My advice is to have some panty liners on hand.

I touched on the topic of sore breasts a few days ago. All those hormones definitely have side effects. The bad news is that if you aren’t pregnant it subsides just before you get your period. The good news is that maybe you might actually be pregnant. Just wait the full 14 days before pulling out your test strips.

Things You Do During The Two Week Wait

August 8, 2009 By Carol Leave a Comment

I am officially living in the zone of the the “2 week wait.” Although, it is actually a 9 day wait it still seems like 2 weeks. If my embryo has survived, it will be 8 days old and hopefully starting the process of implanting itself to my uterus.

I wonder if this means that my breast will start to become sore. Yesterday and today I have found myself groping my breasts to determine if my breasts are more tender than what they were the day before.

Of course my boobs don’t feel any different. After every IVF cycle my breasts are always tender. They are not however mind-droppingly sore like when you are pregnant.

I know I will be groping my breasts for quite a few days more. I have become attuned to my body. I know I will checking them, testing them and groping them to analyse if they are more sore or less sore than before. If my breasts, stop being sore I will know before my period comes that I am not pregnant. If they continue to be sore then there is still hope.

Unpredictable Nature of IVF

August 6, 2009 By Carol Leave a Comment

A positive situation from yesterday has turned out to be not so positive today. Of the 13 embryos that we had yesterday, none survived!!! None. Not even the one that made it to early blastocyst stage. It is terrible. No fall backs. Nothing. Such is the unpredictable nature of IVF.

All our hopes are pinned on the one that was transferred yesterday. It is not a good situation to be in. If this one fails, then we know we are potentially going to face yet another cycle of IVF. I am not sure when a stopping point comes but sooner or later it has got to happen.